Football abuse shame
We are often
critical of our footballers. Over-paid, prima donnas, stupid money grabbers,
out of touch with reality, drunks, womaniser’s etc. etc.
We worship
them from the terraces and sing their names when they play well for our
favourite team or for our country but woe be tide them if they step out line.
If they dare to leave our favourite team for a fatter pay cheque, we give
little thought to their short lived career and the fact that they will probably
be retired by their mid-thirties at best, but instead we call them mercenaries
and worse. We pin our hopes on them before big tournaments, filling the back
pages of our newspapers with their picture then slap them on the front page for
going for a drink or a kebab after the game.
Whether this
is just a British phenomenon where we like to build our celebrities up so we
can knock them down or if it’s simple jealousy I’m not sure. Most of us boys
grew up wanting to be footballers. I remember playing for hours every day,
wishing I was as good as some of my peers never mind my heroes. I have often
wondered how some of my peers didn’t make it to the big time when they were so
talented. The truth is of course that it is incredibly difficult to be a
professional footballer. Talent is not enough. It takes sacrifice that most of
us are unwilling or unable to make. Strict diets, exercise, missing nights out
with our friends, girls, boys are all just part of the reason most of those
that might just have been good enough didn’t make. Of course, there is also an
element of luck. As a teenager playing for a Sunday league team I wrote to
Manchester United, suggesting that they might want to come along and watch me
as I might just be the next Bryan Robson. They politely replied saying that if
my team were to get to an area final they might send a coach along. As my team
was losing every game by half a dozen goals every week, that was rather
unlikely. Does that experience make me a little bit jealous of those who were
lucky enough to get spotted and whipped from obscurity to fame and fortune? Probably!
There have
been many hard luck stories published with sad regularity about former players
turning to gambling, drugs, alcohol and tragedy once their illustrious careers
finish but we seldom feel any real pity for them because they had it so good
while they were playing. My heart bleeds
for you-must have been awful having all that money to blow on booze and drugs..
This week
though we learned about the dark side of the game that until now has never
really been revealed. 18 police forces are investigating historic abuse of
children and young men by football coaches at over 50 professional and amateur
clubs.
Gary Johnson
revealed that Chelsea football club paid him £50,000 to keep quiet about abuse
at the hands of his former coach, Eddie Heath. Heath is now dead and unable to
face charges but many other coaches it seems were doing similar things to
vulnerable young boys while it seems some clubs turned a blind eye or simply failed
to notice. The NSPCC who have set up a dedicated hot line, have received more
than 860 calls as a series of ex-players have come forward.
The really
shocking and scary part is that it could have been any of us. As I said, like
many of my friends I played schoolboy football and innocently invited clubs to
come and watch me. It never crossed my mind for a second that it might be a predator
that came along to take advantage of me. I was lucky, Ashleigh United getting
trounced 10-0 kept me safe but there were thousands of other boys up and down
the country at any given weekend who were there for the taking. Someone said
when the news first broke that this was footballs Saville moment. There can now
be no doubt that this goes beyond football. Cricket, athletics, dance classes,
basketball, in fact almost all sports have been guilty of failing to protect
its participants. It’s not good enough
to say it was a different time with different attitudes. I’m certain that
unless strict controls are put in place the abuse of children will continue.
The FA and our football teams have a responsibility and the financial clout to
take action and fast. It has taken great courage for some well-known ex-players
to come forward and speak up after keeping their secret for decades. Finally,
our heroes deserve our sympathy and we must encourage anyone who has or is
still suffering abuse to speak so that action can be taken. These sick,
manipulative, bullying, men must be stopped and punished. Sexual abuse does not
make a kid a better player and it can never be excused.